sight for sore eyes 7 years past where are you dad?
greetings fellow blogggers....i have a problem. as the subject line states i am needing assistance in a personal light. 7 years ago i parted ways with my father on somewhat shady terms;under duress if you will. to the best of my knowledge i have been doing some research through many of the typical resoruces: phone listings,criminal records,bankruptcies,divorce records and many more but have yet to come up with anything concrete. i will tell you about him. his name is donald edwin beshears. he is 58 years old(born january 1949) and is in the line of construction as a millwright and various contract bid- superintendent work. he was at one time i know for sure a union member of local carpenters union 201 in wichita kansas.also he grew up in louisiana in boys homes and reform schools and finally was adjudacated as an adult at age 17. his mother was evelyn beshears and lawrence beshears was his dad however he spent most of his time with his parents of his mom leiler and sill. he is an extensive traveler and has gone to washington,oregon,born in west virginia,mississippi, worked in- pryor oaklahoma, oaklahoma city, tulsa,mississippi,arkansas,kansas,utah,and too many others to list. his favorite hot spot seems to be texas though; mostly around baytown and the texas city area working on the refinery catcrackers and the setup for the contract bids for the scaffolding. at present i have not had the fine chance to get a job so i have been stapped for cash and have been unable to access many of the"detective" services provided from the web.it might also be noteworthy to write of the major accident that "befell" him so to say. it took place in eldorado kansas at one of their local refineries. he fell off some scaffolding approximately 1 and 1 half stories and crushed his knee and now walks with a somewhat of a jaunty gait.the knee bears the scars of major surgery where the drs. reconstucted it.it is important to me that i locate him for various reasons but mostly to tell him i love him,am worried for him and he has grand babies that he knows nothing about- even their existence.
. don as he likes to go by is 5' 11" around 160lbs, has aquamarine blue eyes,sandy brown hair-possibly graying at the temples,loves to talk with tall tales and is possibly still drinking- he is a binge alcoholic.if you are reading this and may have some info for me i can be reached by e mail at itsjustmeangieb at the big Y. i guess there is not much else to write- oh yes! he has many siblings-rodney keith, jimmie stephen,darrell and sharon that are twins,larry that is deceased and one that was adopted out by the name of silton ray but renamed michael ryder. dad has a child adopted out by the name of catherine in grove oaklahoma from a second disasterous marriage to his x loretta, an illigetimate child somewhere by a member of the thacker family in wichita kansas and two kids fom his 1st marriage donnie jr. and myself when he was married to my mom earlene. yep, i think that about covers it. it almost feels like i am running my story across to oprah or jerry spinger for their show lol.i appreciate any help and promise to answer all leads. thank you and have a good one
now its been a while(10 years) but I havent given up--a year or two since i first posted but i am hoping SOMEONE will know something!!!!! so give me shout at datchigirl75@yahoo.com
thanks and grateful not hateful
angie"